Thursday, December 31, 2009

Drink a cup of kindness

The words "Auld Lang Syne” translate literally from Scottish dialect as “old long ago.” The poem on which the annual celebratory song is based regales love and friendship in times gone past.

The good old days or more idiomatically, "long long ago."

Once upon a time.

Do you live more in the past or the present? Time tends to sugar coat memories with a sweet dusting of sentiment and nostalgia; we forget the rough spots had at a job, with a friend or in a relationship. The past is safe to an extent, no more surprises, the present and future unknown and a little scary.

The past can leave you stuck. Old scars can be sewn up but you still see the tear (stole that from Bono). But if one isn’t willing to catch tender skin jumping over a fence or going breathlessly over an abyss, unless one trusts that arms are strong enough to hold and propel through the tide, what’s on the other side will be forever out of reach.

And that’s the bitch.

And the thrill.


Don said...

Yeah. So I distrust sentiment and want to discard decisions that might turn on sentimental feeling. But I realize that is not news.

And anyway, given how I was made, it's enormously, enormously difficult because without the warmth of known love past, the unknown future looks awful cold.

Oh, and there's your last full paragraph. You covered that already. It's all a bitchin' thrill, isn't it.

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Jodie Kash said...

Um...thanks? I...guess.

Paula Light said...

I live in the future.

Don said...

But you write in the past, apparently.

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